Monday, June 9, 2014

Five Gifts for Fathers that Would Meet Cliff Huxtible's Approvel

When I think of Father's Day Gifts, the first thing I think of is the episode of The Cosby Show where Cliff has had enough of the bad gifts. His chest of gifts is so funny! Soap on a Rope. How does one use it? Light up ties, hats, belts, and suspenders.  So for all the Dad's that don't promote themselves, here are five quick, simple ideas that are sure to be useful to the Father in your life!

  1. MOVIES~ I don't know of a single guy that doesn't love movies.  Whether your guy likes action and adventure, Sci-Fi, or classics, there are plenty of options for him.  Some of the favorites for my guys are, The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug , Star Trek: Stardate Collection , and the John Wayne Film Collection. The possibilities are endless!
  2. Kreg K4MS Jig Master System~ My guys all love to get dirty, make big messes, and have something they have made with their own hands.  And this system has been at the top of the wish/want list for quite some time.  As an added bonus? You can start adding handmade furniture and home storage to your wish lists! It's a win-win situation!
  3. Bird Feeders~ Seriously.  Guys really seem to like them! Anything that has to do with birding is our go-to gift for my Dad, but there is something to be said about providing for the sparrows I guess.  I've known many men who LOVE having bird feeders!
  4. Books~ The guys in my life are AVID readers. So try picking out favorite genres or authors like David McCullough, Zane Grey, or their favorite thriller author.
  5. Sports~ No list would be complete without mentioning sports.  Our guys like to move. They love to compete, get sweaty, and hang out with their pals.  So whether your guy likes to tailgate, follow his favorite team, or gear up, this is always a good way to go!
Whatever you get the fathers in your life, remember that they love you. They are part of you, and you are a part of them. They will love what you get them. As long as it's not a light up, hula girl tie!

Oh, and just in case you are wondering? We did get something from this list for my husband! But since he is reading this and giving his stamp of approval, I can't tell you which one!

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Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Broken Hearts

Sunday was an unreal day for us.  It was one of those days that nearly every minute was planned, without any leeway for mistakes or delays.  I hate Sundays like that. I am a Sabbath Sunday kind of person. You fellowship with your church, enjoy the company, take a nap, reconnect with your family again. In general, easy going, full of REST.

Well, to be honest, (sorry Bro. Mark), as soon as the sermon was being wrapped up, I was checking things off in my mental list, already moving on to the next thing. Yeah, yeah, while singing in the choir.  It happens sometimes. Then, the unbelievable happened. My husband started leading my six year old daughter down the aisle. WHAT?! I was NOT expecting that. In fact, we always are prepared for this. With days and weeks of talks, family discussions, and such at home. I didn't know what either one of them were thinking.

Fast forward past lunch, scary phone calls (I'll get to those), a Bible Drill competition, and we arrive home for an hour or two to regroup before church. Heath and Paulee do some talking, Daddy to little girl. I then take my precious Paulee Rea by the hand, and we sneak off to my room for some girl talk.  She begins to tell me about the things her and her sweet Daddy have talked about, and so I ask her if she is ready to talk with God about her heart.  Y'all I was NOT prepared for this. "Yes Momma. But you need to leave." My heart constricted. How was I to know if she prayed right? What if she got it all mixed up? Could I really know she was "saved"? And then I remember thousands of times these words have come out of my mouth, "It's not about a prayer. There are no magical words that POOF, make you worthy of God." I did the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I walked out of that room and shut the door. Nearly all the way.

What I saw next was a little girl lay down prostrate on my bed and begin to talk with her Jesus. It was holy. And private. I was intruding. It sent me to my knees. Again, I was being shown I had to trust the One I claim as my Savior, with these that are most precious to me. Because no matter their worth to me, it doesn't hold a candle to their worth to the Creator.

"Oh Lord, I really do have to trust her to You. She isn't mine to begin with! Set your flame in her heart, consume her, and let that fire be unquenchable. Change her, and through her, set the world on fire. And give me Lord, just a touch of her faith and trust in You. There is no compromise in her eyes. No questions. Just pure faith in You."

I have no idea how long she prayed, or I. But when she walked out, she was determined. I said, "So?",
"So what?"
"What happened?"
"Well Mom, don't you know? The wages of sin is death. I have sin Mom. I have said things, thought things, and done things that make God sad.  I have a payment. Dad showed me in the Bible.  But Jesus gives a gift of eternal life. Its why he lived here. And was perfect. And died on the cross. And rose on the third day. So I asked Him to give me His gift".
"Mom, don't you know? The Bible says if you ask God for something, He gives it to you."
"I see. So now what?"
"Well, the Bible also says that 'if you confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord, you will be saved.' So that's what I am doing. Momma, don't you know these things?! (she was looking very worried about the condition of my heart) Every Sparkie knows these things. It's basic Bible truth!"

So black and white.  She told me that the next thing she needed to do would be to "get baptized". Because that is what Jesus did. And she wants to be just like Jesus. But since she has to wait for that, she needed to find a Bible to read. Because if she is going to act like Jesus, and be like Jesus, she probably should read about what he did and how he acted. I am not making this up!  So this precious little girl went and found this Bible that Heath's grandparents sent to us, and began reading Psalms. Chapter 23 to be exact. Because she has it memorized and so it wouldn't be too hard to read.  And this little girl, who isn't a ferocious reader, and has just an average six year old reading level, has proceeded to read chapter after chapter in Psalms. And today, she informed me that the Psalms were great, although she didn't understand them well, but they weren't telling her what her Jesus did every day. So I suggested she start reading the Gospels. We looked at John. It was too long. Luke, too wordy (her description, not mine). Matthew, well, she's tried it before, but the names just get to be too much. So we flipped to Mark. And on the title page, it bold print in the margin, it said, "MARK IS THE GOSPEL THAT SHOWS US HOW TO PUT OUR FAITH IN JESUS INTO ACTION". She squealed. "This is it Momma!! Now I will know how to act! It has to be different than I have before I surrendered my heart to God!"

I asked her that now that she is my sister, if she would stop calling me Mom. I got the eye roll, and "MOM!!" Good to know she is still my little girl. With a passion fresh, new, and bold.

And, to hear what else was going on that day, and to see a sweet video from Paulee Rea herself, visit my sister, Teri Lynne. There stories will forever be intertwined.

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Too Young to be Old

I went to the local doctor's office Monday. I never go to a doctor.  Unless I am pregnant. And no, I'm not pregnant. That tells you how concerned I was. There was a very odd, strange rash on my torso, and it wasn't getting any better.  In fact, it was blistering.  I was in the office with the nurse for about 30 seconds, and she laughed and said, "Shingles. Definitely shingles."  Seriously.  I'm 37 years old. In my head, that is an old person's disease.  What joy.  I was told to expect lots of itching, pain, and discomfort.  She just kept giving me great news! I have since found out, that once you have had the chicken pox, you have a dormant virus that can cause shingles AT ANY TIME!! Way not cool.

Well, I have done fairly well. Monday night I was pretty miserable. But it was more mental than anything. I was running a low grade fever, only had some minor nerve pain, but no one would come near me. I had the plague after all. I just wanted to be held.

So Tuesday, the itching was getting a little crazy. I had been administering CalaGel, but still, it itched. And since I had lots of time on my hands, I was doing tons of reading on the Internet. And ran across the wonderful blog My Blessed Life by that dear sweet woman, Myra.  And she talked about detox baths. A long soak in the tub sounded wonderful.  And if I could amp it up a little to aid in pain and itching relief, well that would be the proverbial icing on the cake.  So to the tub I went armed with Epsom Salts, essential oils, and a book. It was wonderful. I took my bath right before lunch, and had complete relief until eight o'clock that night when some of the itching returned, and just a few twinges. I was THRILLED!

I just added two cups of the salt to the bottom of my dry tub, and dropped four drops of Valor, and four drops of Thieves to the salt. I mixed it well by hand, being sure to incorporate the oils to the salt well. Then I ran my warm bath water, and soaked.  There was tingling (the good kind), and some sweating (that's the detox), and relaxation.  Once I finished, I made sure to rehydrate with some ice water and lemon oil. (P.S. Don't use too much Epsom Salt.  Otherwise, you will have problems. Like that whole thing about short term relief of constipation. WHAT?!)
I am definitely a new convert to detox baths!! Please let me know if I can help you with any purchase of Essential Oils, or if you have questions I could answer for you! For more information on Young Living Oils I love please click here and here.
*I am not a doctor. I am a Mom looking for ways to naturally treat ailments in our home. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. And yes, buy purchasing anything from these links, I will receive compensation. However, all opinions and statements are mine and completely unsolicited from the company. If you would like to order from me, please visit and use my distributor number 163227

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Menus for April 14-27

 I realize I am a day late, but I did want to be sure to get our menus shared. Part of getting food costs under control is having a menu. Once you know what is for dinner, you know what to buy. You are less likely to overbuy, have to visit the store multiple times for extra purchases, or most tempting, just eat out. Take 30 minutes and come up with 14+ meal ideas and write them down. Once you have that done, then you can plan them out with your family's schedule. Homemade lasagna isn't going to get done the night you have baseball practice, choir rehearsal, piano lessons, and a dentist appointment. That day, you need a crock pot meal!  And when you know what meals you will actually be needing, then you can write out a grocery list. The grocery list takes a little longer to do, but so worth the time. And make it a family project. Send kids to retrieve cookbooks, to look in cupboards for extra canned corns, or to get a count as to how much beef is left in the freezer. Soon, you will begin to see your food costs diminish, and much more healthy dinners at your table. And the frazzled, stressed out Mom?  Well, I can't get rid of her. But I can make dinner time much more smooth with having a plan!

What we will be eating the next two weeks

So, what will you be having for dinner this week?

Friday, April 11, 2014

In Love with Lavender

Before I gush too much about one of my favorite oils,  I want to let you know about a little contest I am having. I would like to name this series on Essential Oils, but am out of all creative names! So I thought I would let you, my readers, help me! I need something, short, sweet, and of course cute that I can label all my posts about oils. And as a thank you to the one who comes up with the winning entry, I am going to give them a free 15ml bottle of Lavender oil!

So let me tell you why I am giving away Young Living's Lavender Oil. In my opinion it is one of the most versatile oils Young Living has to offer. I think you can use it for just about ANYTHING. But let me tell you of my very first experience with it. I received my Premium Starter Kit in February. Our youngest daughter, Marian Glen, was 10 months old, and had only slept through the night once, maybe twice all those months. Most nights, there were at least two feedings, and multiple crying fits and screams during the night. Sleeping for more than two straight hours was considered a blessing around here. And as a girl who needs her beauty sleep? I was turning into the nasty villain of the movies, not the Pretty Princess. So when my order came in, I set up the diffuser, filled it with water and 10 drops of Lavender Oil, turned it on, and then fed Marian Glen. When she had her fill, and was passed out in my arms, I tried for the dreaded transfer to bed. You know the one. They are dead to the world, but the second they leave your arms, the blood-curdling screams begin? She rolled right over in bed, and STAYED ASLEEP!! And six glorious hours later, she woke up again to nurse. And went right back to sleep, and slept for four more hours. That night of sleep was worth every penny I spent on that kit!

But I use it for all sorts of stuff. Just this week I have used it for:
  • allergy relief
  • minor cuts on the children
  • diaper rash ointment
  • Epson salt bath
  • room freshener
  • bedtime relaxer
This is truly one of the top oils you can purchase. You can diffuse it, apply it straight to the skin, and, since Young Living Oils are therapeutic grade oils, you can take it internally. It is also included in the Everyday Oil Collection, which is included in the Premium Starter Kit. Please feel free to contact me with any questions you may have about the oil, purchasing, or how we have been changing our lifestyle to become more natural in how we treat our family.  As always, if you choose to purchase something, I would be honored if you used my member ID, 1638227 as your referring distributor!

And did you see? By purchasing the Premium Starter Kit, you are getting the Home Diffuser basically for free! It is an amazing way to step into the world of Essential Oils!

*I am not a doctor. I am a Mom looking for ways to naturally treat ailments in our home. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. And yes, buy purchasing anything from these links, I will receive compensation. However, all opinions and statements are mine and completely unsolicited from the company.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

How Essential Oils are Entering our Home

I have to tell you, I love my newest adventure. I took the plunge and jumped into the world of essential oils.  After much research, thought, and prayer, I joined the Young Living Essential Oils' team.  From learning what oils to use when, convincing skeptical teens I'm not poisoning them, and being brave enough to let go of "what we've always done" treatments, it has been quite the experience for our family. One that we LOVE.

So from time to time, I will be sharing with you how we are getting rid of the harsh chemicals in our household, and learning to use products that are natural, from God's creation,  and good for our health and well being. So to start this series off, let me share with you where I started.

Our home is full of migraine sufferers, allergy victims, and insomniacs. And as we have been raising our children, we have become less enthused about over-the-counter meds and other conventional treatments. There just seemed to be something not right about giving our then four year old heavy duty pain meds for her migraine. But what do you do as your baby is screaming at you to "make it stop"? Enter in some good friends, more research, and a parent's desire to do just that. Make it all stop.

It was only two days after my starter package from Young Living arrived that we had our first migraine. And it was a doosey. My husband was writhing in pain, and pills were not going to help. He was just throwing them up from being so nauseated. I began a regimen of peppermint, PanAway, and Deep Relief. I rubbed the oils on his feet, neck, and temples, and diffused the peppermint while he tried to relax in the bathtub. Very quickly, he was back in bed, and I kept the diffuser going, and added peppermint to his stomach to help aid with the nausea. He was not instantly healed, but we were able to avoid a trip to the hospital for IV fluids, and he was sleeping off the migraine within the hour.

And, as soon as he was asleep, I rinsed the diffuser, put in some lavender, and took it to the room where our baby sleeps. Marian is the most non-sleeping baby in history I think! She was 9 months old, and we had yet to go more than three hours sleeping. I turned that machine on, eased myself into my bed, and crashed. And did not know anything until seven the next morning! It was a full NINE HOURS of uninterrupted sleep! Y'all, that right there was worth every.single.penny.

This is just a start of how oils are changing our lives. From cleaning products, sore muscles, stomach virus and more, I have lots to share with you. And I would love for you to join me in our adventure! Purchasing the Premium Starter Kit is the most economical way to start your journey.  And with a Premium Starter Kit and member sign up, purchase, I will send you a free reference book to help you learn how to use your new essential oils! Be sure to use my member number 1638227 when you sign up so you can get your free guide.

*I am not a doctor. I am a Mom looking for ways to naturally treat ailments in our home. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. And yes, buy purchasing anything from these links, I will receive compensation. However, all opinions and statements are mine and completely unsolicited from the company.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Book Review: Asia, It's People and History by Bonnie Rose Hudson

It's not often a curriculum moves you. To tears, to prayer, to action. However, "Asia, It's People and History by Bonnie Rose Hudson" just happens to be one of those. From the very first story, I was hooked. By the second story I was ugly crying. In fact, I read it cover to cover in my first sitting with it. And my children are mesmerized.

Although written for ages 8 to 12, it really fits well for families. Broken down to be a 16 week course studying 6 countries, this unit study is easily adapted to expand or condense to meet your families needs.  I enjoyed the story sections and used them as read-alongs for the whole family. They captured us, connected us to the people of these countries, yet weren't so long that the littles got restless.

Our family especially enjoyed the links to Voice of the Martyrs, and connecting further ways to pray for people around the world. As a homeschool parent, I found the history sections to be a great way to continue learning, as well as using the Activities for each section. But I think what was most enjoyable, and altering, were the discussion questions at the end of each part. After feeling so connected to the people in the stories, and then asking questions that make it so real to you, you cannot walk away without DOING something. Questions like, "Have you ever felt like no one cares about you? What made you feel that way? What helped you remember how much God-and many other people-care about you?". Or even "How would you feel it you had to move away because your neighbors didn't want you to love Jesus?"

I encourage you, homeschooling family or not, to prayerfully consider this book. It is a wonderful way for you as a family to set your hearts and minds on brothers and sisters around the world who are in need of our prayers and our actions.